Because of acceptance, so inclusive
In the hit variety show 怎样挽回男人 如果确实自己有错在先,那么就主动去承担错误,用一种担当感去挽回。制造一些机会,来重新点燃心中的爱,可以是一些惊喜,也可以是一种全新的沟通角度。the man doing housework, Wu Zhongtian and Yang Zishan get along with each other in a way that many people admire.
At the beginning of the program, the staff came to Yang Zishan’s home to install the shooting machine.
But Yang Zishan has a serious habit of cleanliness, and she has just finished cleaning her room. In the face of so many people walking around the house, her mood becomes very anxious.
When she saw a staff member stepping on the carpet without shoe covers, she couldn’t help collapsing. She squatted in the corner and cried, “I think I cleaned all morning for nothing.”
In the eyes of the staff and guests, her actions are somewhat too sensitive.
Wu Zhongtian was very considerate of Yang Zishan. He immediately came to touch her head and said, “we can disinfect the whole body later.”.
When cleaning, Yang Zishan criticizes Wu Zhongtian’s way of mopping the floor and blames him for not cleaning it.
Wu Zhongtian didn’t have any displeasure, but said in a gentle voice, “I didn’t delay it. Can you teach me?”
Yang Zishan was angry and ignored him, so he kept looking for topics and patiently communicated with her until she was depressed.
Another time, he accidentally washed and shrunk Yang Zishan’s new sweater, and Yang Zishan angrily threw it on the ground.
He immediately apologized and tried his best to recover his clothes. He also tried his best to put his big man in his clothes and made a funny apology to Yang Zishan.
Some netizens feel that Yang Zishan is “acting” and “affectating” and has put some trivial things on the line.
Even Li Sheng, a guest of the show, sighed: “it’s too early to change a man.”
Wu Zhongtian, on the other hand, tried his best to understand her sensitivity and tolerance.
Every time he mentioned his wife, he would sincerely praise her for being perfect.
But Yang Zishan knows that she is not perfect. It is her husband’s tolerance that makes her open her heart and become more positive and optimistic.
Sanmao once said:
It is because two people are not half of each other, so after marriage, the edges and corners of both sides are patiently ground with sand, hoping that in the near future, they will be able to grind out a pattern. If one day, when two people are swinging around in a very small home, they will not hurt each other.
A good marriage is not to find a perfect partner, but to accept each other’s shortcomings and tolerate each other.
All your joys and sorrows, the other side can understand; all your wilful mischief, the other side will be gentle and tolerant.
Willing to coax you anytime and anywhere, to spend time to read you, let you do yourself, is the most comfortable marriage relationship.